One Major Character You Need To Succeed With Wealth Building
By Dailytab24.
Most people fail before they even start trying, and that is down to poor awareness or lack of knowledge. Knowledge is important for financial growth, because it opens up alternatives and means of surviving. Most people find it hard to refuse where they are supposed to refuse, considering the plea or situation of another above scopes of survival.
Most beginners have failed to achieve their dream of wealth building because they multiply their expenditures. And in most cases, those that fail see helping others as a necessity, instead of done in comfort. One should first be comfortable and have enough before helping financially, that is the key to breaking even and wealth building. When you become a giver when you have not succeeded, you will hurt yourself and the receiver. Because, the receiver will definitely lose the gift with time.
A case study was a man from a family of four, from a poor background. The first son decided to focus on his life and wealth building, and refused to give to his parents when auxiliary need arises. The second son had to fill the void, giving every time the parents needed and became the darling of the parents while the first son was considered irresponsible.
After some years, the giver instead of multiply was diminished to the point he couldn’t give anymore. And their parents was at the cusp of starvation. The giver was dimished to a point he couldn’t invest or replenish. It was all hope lost for the parents and the second giving son, until the first son showed up. The first son wisely invested with what he held close to his heart and was able to build wealth, and in the end, now successful, nothing he gives can pull him down or diminish him. He gives in comfort – when there is more than enough.
One must understand that he puts himself and the receiver at risk of starvation when he continues to give without restraining and building for sufficient. Giving should be extremely scrutinized, and not emotionally carried out. A beginner should give from the his reserve and not his capital. When giving enters capital, it becomes foolishness and put the receiver at risk of permanent denial.
The above narrative do not in any way encourage stinginess towards parents or those in need, but the need to scrutinize giving and avoid giving from a capital. It is better to be hungry today and eat tomorrow, than to eat today and be hungry tomorrow. When giving puts giver at the risk of bankruptcy, he should seriously consider selfisness as a virtue to be able to sufficiently give tomorrow.
Beginners should learn how to be selfish, and in most extreme case, give from reserve. Beginner should not give randomly and emotionally. Take time and build wealth, build enough to a point where giving will not affect the prospect of stability.
Selfishness should be moderated to reflect tactical decision to save the future of a receiver. When a beginner gives without scrutiny, he poses a risk to the receiver and himself. As a beginner, being selfish should not put people around you at risk; instead, it should moderate their expectations to benefit them tomorrow.
