Therapist hub: females staying longer in a single relationship leads to steady orgasm
By Dailytab24.
A survey of ten single women conducted by Dailytab24 shows the percentage of those in longer relationships or have been in longer relationships experienced orgasm as time goes on in that their relationships are higher than those who did in a short relationship.
Factors that led to those in a short relationship experiencing orgasm stemmed from intention than substance.
The percentage that achieved orgasm in a short relationship entered into the relationship with the sole purpose of s*x.
They noted they were not after a healthy relationship that could lead to something meaningful but motivated by immediate need for s*x.
They also noted they had abstained from s*x for months before finally doing one, and the surging urge and intent contributed to a relaxed mind.
Nonetheless, they failed to achieve orgasm as time went on after multiple engagements in the act with their short-time partners.
While the higher percentage argued that with relaxed mind and trust stemming from longer relationship, coupled with the awareness and knowledge of their partners, they easily achieved orgasm.
They also said they took their time to allow s*xual urge pile up before engaging in it. They said their feeling of comfort in the relationship reflected in their s*xual act and helped reach orgasm.
Have you stayed in a longer relationship before? You need to try five years of relationships where you know the relationship is yours and everything is invested in it with passion and affection.
The feeling is different from a new relationship, which you are not sure if it’s your relationship or usual stopover relationship.
Yet, we all need tips here and there to answer the most asked questions to therapists.
Therapists have resorted to first listening to clients to know how best to help with the question.
This means that biological build up differs and because s*xual satisfaction has mental, social, community and religious factors, therapists tend to first ask and listen to know the perspective from which to solve the problem of their clients.
In Africa, most people lack or forbid s*xual education because of their society and cultural beliefs, while religious sentiment across the globe put families off s*x education.
People tend to seek tips to achieving s*xual satisfaction only when they are duly in need of it. In some cases; what would have easily been built from scratch becomes a burden.
Achieving s*xual satisfaction is mostly a concern for females. The biological build-up of males has made it easy for that release of s*xual tension while females need a bit of tweaking to achieve orgasm during s*xual intercourse.
The length of time a woman needs to achieve orgasm varies and factors can be responsible for short time orgasm as well as long time orgasm in females.
Research that focused on Africa confirmed that intake of s*x enhancement drugs among males increased by 70% of recent.
A further survey indicated that more than the average of the males using s*x enhancement drugs is aware of the risk it poses.
About 45% have been addicted to s*x enhancement drugs, while 50% of the 45% addicted find it hard to have s*x without enhancement drugs.
Across Africa; more drug enhacement related deaths during s*x have been recorded than normal death during s*x. More people explore and abuse pain killers for longer s*x than they go for a few approved s*x enhancement drugs.
In Nigeria, African most populous country, NAFDAC has succeeded in banning drugs like tramadol and codeine due to the high rate of abuse that is traced to desire for s*xual activity. Drug addiction has rendered many people useless in an effort to satisfy their partners.
The fundamental problem is traced to lack of s*x education. The question asked to males showed that most males believe that orgasm can only be achieved by longer stimulation of the vaginal during s*x.
On the contrary; a poll conducted specifically on females showed that almost all the participants don’t achieve orgasm through stimulation of their vaginal by their partners. If it occurs, it’s clearly by chance.
It is pertinent to frequently make it clear that the journey to s*xual satisfaction starts from the head. Those who sought s*xual satisfaction must understand the importance of the mental aspect of the journey. You need to be safe; feel love and loved, make your choice without influence, and be well into what you want to do.
We have talked about communication, which is the main factor in achieving s*xual satisfaction.
Most therapists believe there is no defined way of achieving s*xual satisfaction if not to open communication with your partner and directly know what either of you want or where it ticks your boxes.
It is through communication that a partner can know the very position that suits her/him. It goes without emphasizing that communication is the first on the list.
However; there are many ways s*xual satisfaction can be achieved. It is crucial to note that biological build-up differs, and sometimes, what worked for me might not work for you, but it doesn’t cost anything to try everything.
We can only put out options to help our esteemed readers; trying different options through communication might be the best way to achieve your goal.
S*xual relationship longevity is a factor in achieving sexual satisfaction. Nowadays, females are afraid of love because they are bound to lose out; as such, they barely put their minds in a relationship or s*x.
Fear drains and deprives them of the mental stability needed to connect all the dots to reaching orgasm. Most women then depend on futile longer physical stimulation of their vaginal to achieving orgasm.
When longer stimulation becomes an option; their partners are forced to seek a means to stimulate for a longer period while s*x toys are used for partners that don’t want to put their spouses under pressure for longer stimulation. What substitute longer stimulation is the main objective of this column.
A relaxed and longer sexual relationship where a female partner has developed security could lead to s*xual orgasm. Going further; due to orgasm needs to connect all the dots to be achieved; a longer relationship solves most of the problems for the female gender.
A longer relationship must have explored everything through communication and sufficient presence. Females give their all to a longer relationship because the longer the relationship is the fonder their partners.
A longer relationship gives females the impression of safety and possession. When a female is possessive of a relationship; she invests her time exploring, communicating, and trying new ways to reach orgasm. In the absence of stress of any kind; orgasm is much closer than it ever was for a female.
