Relationship Jackpot: How to keep one s*xual partner forever
Originally published on Dailytab24.
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Good s*x first starts in the head and ends in the bed.
S*x with a remarkable partner is sweet as heaven while s*x with a normal partner is usual escape from infatuation.
Yet; a monogamous partner must dedicate sufficient time to knowing the tips and understanding the changes in the society to sincerely maintain his monogamous belief.
However; choice varies, and every partner can be remarkable by virtue of choice.
Some people are sapios*xual , these are the kind of people that are sexually attracted by intelligence.
Only intelligent partners spark a lush of s*xual desire and experience that its flame burns eternally in them.
Some like well fleshed partners, others like skinny partners. Features varies and to maintain monogamy; one must consider his full package before initiating a relationship.
Generally; most people are attracted by physical attributes, but whichever one is your trigger, your remarkable partner is the one you got s*xually attracted to in the absence of infatuation.
Such a relationship gives the best s*xual experience. An attraction that naturally developed without infatuation is the pathway to a remarkable s*xual experience.
Decision-making is the driver of the main subject. We own our bodies and decide what we want to do and how we want to behave or approach our s*x life.
One must be able to decide without influence to stick with one partner before knowing the factors or how to stick with one s*xual partner forever.
Without decision and the determination thereof; we won’t win you over to the world of monogamy.
Monogamy is today a hypocritical practice. Infidelity is now seen as a culture due to the volatile s*xuality of our society.
Recently; in spite of everything beautiful Shakira embodies, his ex-husband couldn’t keep the oath of their love, which ultimately led to divorce.
Infidelity is the average cause of most divorces across the globe. It is pertinent to know that partners of high esteem would always demand monogamy as the pride of their relationships.
CHOOSING A SPOUSE
Remarkable spouse is the root of a successful monogamy. While choosing a spouse; one should be able to first consider s*xual attraction.
All the features that eternally trigger sexual attraction should be considered before going into a relationship. While considering the features; it should not be the focal point of initiating a relationship.
When the character is there; the features should also be there. It is better to go for the features instead of embracing character because character is dynamic while features are permanent.
People often misconstrue infatuation for the right choice. Infatuation narrows everything to itself; thereby making one lose sense of objectivity. S*xually attractive figures are the perfect example of infatuation. When s*xually attracted; everything narrows to easing the burden of s*xual urge and leaves victims blinded.
S*xual attraction ultimately turns everything about the recipient into stunning beauty, but when a relationship is initiated and s*xual satisfaction is achieved, de-intoxication begins and ends with separation or infidelity
Choosing a partner should take a longer time of self-deliberation and should be done within the period of stability of the mind and body. Choosing right is the major factor in monogamy.
Most cases of failed monogamy are rooted in wrong choices. Assessment of what one is feeling towards another should be prioritized. Over and over again; people should be able to probe themselves and reconfirm what they are feeling before initiating a relationship.
MAINTENANCE
While choice is the foundation of a successful monogamy; maintenance is the finishing. No matter the model of a new car one buys, without maintenance, the car will dilapidate and eventually stop working. If nothing is done about it; the car will become a scrap.
Likewise a remarkable spouse; if you make the right choice and get a remarkable spouse, if the relationship is not managed and maintained, it could collapse and the next thing is to see one looking for a new partner. Monogamy is abused when you keep changing partners every time.
It is not easy to sleep and wake up seeing and living with one partner all the days of one’s life. Naturally; excesses led to devaluation. People tend to get bored or lose value for a partner after a long time together.
To avoid loss of value or boredom; a spouse must endeavour to establish a maintenance routine.
Everyday s*x is sometimes tiring; a s*x timetable can help control excesses of s*x that could lead to boredom.
One of the worst situations in monogamy is getting bored of one’s partner or losing s*xual attraction. Nature abhors vacuum; so when you are not occupying that vacuum, ultimately, someone else is occupying it. This is why excesses must be managed and value attached to s*xual intercourse.
Partners must allow a real hunger for s*x take prominence before engaging in it and should not see s*xual intercourse as a stopover business.
Research confirmed that partners that have s*xual intercourse a maximum of three times every month increase hunger, increase s*xual desire, and longevity.
A break is necessary in every relationship as distance makes the heart grow fonder. Partners should form the habit of having a sufficient break any time they notice bluntness in their relationship.
Make a trip but stay in communication. Make video calls and talk about the s*xual aspect of the relationship you miss. The heart will definitely long for one another and grows fonder. Missing your partner restores a new phase in a relationship.
After a trip that took days off your partner; a return opens a new chapter, and the feeling is exceptional – taking you back to the happy beginning.
Nobody can tell partners how to get the best out of their s*x life than their selves. A lot have been written about how to achieve s*xual satisfaction and orgasm but biological makeup makes it harder to establish a specific way.
People have different approaches to achieving s*xual satisfaction, and it is only when you are told that you can help or find a suitable reference. Partners must solve the question of s*xual satisfaction through communication.
When in a relationship s*xual communication is affected due to religious or social leanings; exploration and trying new things constantly during s*xual intercourse can be a better alternative.
During s*xual intercourse; partners should freely change positions, add pressure, and reduce pressure while attentively observing their partners. A receptive approach will be welcomed without words, and that way, partners know the particular way to satisfy their partners.
BENEFITS
Monogamy is not encouraged in our today’s society, and this contributed to 70% prevalence of diseases. S*xual intercourse is the highest means of the spread of diseases in our society. Embracing monogamy will drastically drop the rate of spread of diseases.
Partners are not happy when their lovers share their bodies with others. Promiscuity affects the esteem and mental state of victims. Partners feel insecure in a promiscuous relationship and that insecurity mentally affects all the facets of their lives.
The mental stress of insecurity could lead to a life-threatening health condition. Even those who are silent die on the inside, and research shows that people who keep silent are the worst hit in promiscuity.
Specifically; terminal virus like human immune-deficiency virus that later becomes acquired immuno-deficiency syndrome became a viral virus due to its prevalence which unprotected s*xual intercourse is the major factor.
Monogamy brings about assured safety and maximum pleasure in s*xual activities.
Research claimed that a higher percentage of people choose unprotected s*x- giving their reasons that condom minimizes pleasure during s*xual intercourse. Monogamy solves the problem and maximizes s*xual intercourse with zero risk.
Monogamy increases affection among partners. Partners who choose monogamy end up honouring, adding value, and taking pride in their partners.
Despite being the safest s*xual relationship; monogamy elongates life.
Research shows that partners that practice monogamy live a stress free life and are always happy being together. Above all; monogamous partners live longer due to peace of mind and affection it breeds.
CONCLUSION
Determination is the key to a successful monogamy. Partners must be willing to sacrifice lust and master their thought.
Mastery of the thought is the defence of a successful monogamy. It is through mastery of the thought that one can agree that s*x is s*x with one end product.
It is through the mastery of the thought that partners can know no other s*xual intercourses produces gold, but s*xual satisfaction that takes commitment and their partners can offer that much others can offer.
It is the mastery of the thought that can tame partners and make them know v*gina is v*gina everywhere in the world.
It is not an easy feat to stick with one s*xual partner forever. The thought of tasting another partner often props up.
Infatuation can suddenly come up, but ruling over your thoughts is the key to staying positive.
Everything happens in the head, and once you are able to defeat your head, monogamy will become a thing of pride.
Partners should learn how to dress attractively. Smart dressing prepares the mind for dependence. While at home; dress s*xually provocative to constantly switch the minds of your partners.
Monogamous partners should not rest on their laurels. Partners should continue to follow social fashion trends and hygiene. Being neat and keeping up to date with social life keeps the heart and mind at home.
